Communication between individuals can be challenging to say the least ( especially between men and women).
Romantic movies and novels have created an illusion about relationships that are fictitious. Pretend stories filled with pretend people living pretend lives that have little to do with reality.
If we want to effectively manage our children’s behavior we must, first of all, understand why they behave the way they do. Please note, the term I use is “manage” behavior rather than “control” behavior. Attempting to control behavior is an approach that most parents apply. When this approach is used it only serves to initiate power struggles.
Parents will typically assign motives to their child’s behavior. Their definition may be accurate…or NOT. Most times when the parent is inaccurate, it is due to either misunderstanding or over personalizing that child’s behavior.
Have you ever dreamed of having a magic to make your love last longer? If there is a magic, love will be all around, no more sorrow.